to have never have met, to feel the pain of missing someone even when you are with them. But I thought love was enough, thats what I thought. Buts she said…. that realistically there may be a point where it isnt. Not that she wont be with me, just I guess that shes not sure she’d wait forever. I suppose its reasonable, but it tore a whole in my heart. What do I do? Our love is still so strong, and she said she was so sorry for being afraid, of letting fear taint our love. I think I should let it lie, I think I will. But sometimes I’m the kinda guy who needs his closure, and I have fears too. Another problem we have is that she has no money and I can’t get a job cause I’m in school and parents won’t let me. So how do I get the money to send her out here? I have no Idea, I’m trying my best to think of ways.. finding old collectable cards, trying to sell them… saving all the allowance scraps I get, even trying to find someone to whom I can ebay my WoW account. But to think that…. time could hamper this pure feeling, it hurts. And I can’t take away that hurt. TO think that love could have a price tag or an expiration date…
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i too had a long distance relationship, it is hard, and it is difficult. but if it is true love, you two will be able to pull through untill you can see eachother. fair warning, when i saw my long distance for the first time...it was very akward, so just keep that in mind. how old are you by the way?
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im 16. Guys I really need help, I dont noe wether or not to bring how depressed this is makin me with her or not.
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Hey, i may be able to help. I am 17, girl, and in a serious online relationship. it is very very difficult but with a lot of faith, love and patience, you can pull through if you truly love her. Love is to be selfless. If you truly love her then you will let her go her own ways, and if she loves you back then you will stay close. i go through a lot of hard times with my boyfriend but we have been together for 9 months and our love is still strong. Best Wishes -JennJenn
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It's tough no doubt about it, I too once had a long distance relationship, USA to Britain, so I feel your pain. It is a very confusing process, one I wasn't really prepared for four years ago. Being young and in love is hard enough, young in love and separated by an ocean is even harder. You could spook her more by telling her that you are scared, but sooner or later those feelings are going to spilling out anyway in one form or another. So it's best to keep the lines of communication open and just tell her the truth, and also tell her that you love her and you trust her, and your only upset all this because she means so much to you and you don't want to lose her which I assume is the truth. But really talk can only get you so far, ultimately the ball is in her court, which can be scary, but she's going to have her moments where she will wonder whether or not you will come through for her, you'll just have to take a leap of faith. And that can hurt when the other side isn't willing to stick around and wait as long as you are willing to, but you only have so many options. The main thing to remember at least from my experience is that even if you two cannot sustain a romantic relationship over the distance at this time because of money and school, just stay friends. You must have a lot in common if you both care about each other a lot, never burn your bridges behind you even if you are hurting, at the very worst you can move on with a guilt free consceince, odds are you'll be wonderful friends for many years to come, and true friends are a real treasure. And maybe when you'll are both older and your circumstances have improved in a few years you might get a second chance together if you have stayed friends, it helps the bonding and healing process. Love can't be bought, and as for a time limit or shelf date, if it is true it will endure, it will just take a new form be it friendship or something else. Infatuation is wanting the other person, to be around them to enjoy their company, love on the other hand is wanting whatever is best for them even if it may not be what you had hoped for. I learned that one the hard way, I was 17 and didn't know the difference, and eventually our romance died because of that, but there was more to it than just the intense emotional attraction that brought us together, we we're deep down a great deal alike and we could relate to each other still even after things went bad and "slowly" things are falling back into place even though we broke up nearly two years ago. If you have that kind of love for her and she coes too odds are the two of you will make it sooner or latter, it may be a little bumpy along the way that's kind of the whole point to share the good times and help each other through the bad.