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I suppose there are many ways, but they all depend on the person. Can you tell us why you think a girl messing around with you?
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This goes two (2) ways, when you are truely interested in an other person in a way that their well-being is as important to you as your own well-being an development, then you are truely interested that person. When you truely want to see the best for the other person that is when you have a true interest in them. Now turn it around, Does she take an interest in you and your interest (Job, hobbies, ect)? Does she truely want to see the best for you?
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Ya, girls can be pretty **** confusing sometimes...and visa-versa, I guess. How long have you two been going out? And, again, why is it that you feel this way? Really!!! There's a reason you feel this way. What happend last night that made you post your question just now?
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Ya, hmmm... Sorry to say it dude, but, it sounds like she's messin' with ya or just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. Either way, she's a good friend (perhaps), but nothing more. Are you gonna be cool with that? Like, you'll be able to get over her?
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Relationships and emotions are complex. You appear to care for her a great deal based on your response to seeing her with another guy. It also appears that she does not have the same level of feelings for you. Relationships take time to develop. To begin a relationship involes taking time to get to know the other person. Once they know you are interested in them as a person, then that is when (you would normally) expect them to begin to take an interest in you.
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Dude, whatever you do, make sure you take the high road. As in, be cool with it, be mature about the whole thing. What, exactly, was it that she did to you thats making you that upset.
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She may be interested in you as a friend. That's OK and is a place to start. That is over the top. She may have done something to hurt you emotionally, but if you truely are intereste in her, then you need to be mature in your relationship and give her space. Dude, whatever you do, make sure you take the high road. As in, be cool with it, be mature about the whole thing.What, exactly, was it that she did to you thats making you that upset. Ecellent advise. Be mature in your the relationship and get some space from her.
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Ok, would you mind if I give some onest, and blunt advice?
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i jus wana get bac at her for wat she did to me I still fail to understand what she *did* to you? As far as I can tell (unless your not giving the whole story) she has just been a friend to you. That's awesom of her. Thank her for that. Be a friend back, in return. Why would you want to make her feel the way you do now... She hasn't done anything, except for being your friend. It was your choice to place expectations on her, and to want a relationship. Seriously, if your going to give her back, what she gave to you, then give her the same kind of friendship she is giving you. IOt's easy to deal with this, if you just look at it the right way :-)
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dude, i'm sorry to say that she is messing with you. you saw her with another guy and you need to accept that you won't always get what you want. she has desires to and that may not be you. the job of taking the high road is always necessary after getting rejected because it shows that you aren't desperately in love with her and that you can keep your cool for future women. forget about her, start flirting with other girls, experiment, date a few, and after a while i assure you you will want to ask another girl out. have fun with it to because you only have one teenage life where you can do almost anything without worrying to. your welcome.
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That is often the best way to get over somebody... So right-on for making that decision. I'm just saying, don't be mad at her, that'll only cause you angst, and bring YOU down.
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have fun with your life and don't waste..... :P
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Life would be so much better if we could turn our emotions on anf off.. especially off at times. If god loves us, why did he/she make things hurt so much when we encounter rejection? ... hope some crazy scientist invents a drug someday that will allow emotions to be turned off if not make them completely go away (and be legal)