i do i tell her this?
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When you are born, your actions are what shape and form you. Not what people say your actions will be.
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if you dont want to be, DONT BE!!! its as easy as that.
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you live in america and dont have to be something your parents want you to be. go to school, do well, get a good job, and get out of whatever gang it is.
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it is in her opinion. reality is you are you.
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This is your life, only you decide what happens. Tell her straight everyone lives for their own life.