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I wouldn't tell her unless you have to or if you feel you're ready to. I would trust close friends and people of that nature, but make sure you have time to fully explore your seuxality before you come out. Coming out for me, I don't tell anyone unless they ask really completely, but otherwise I'll just bring up common conversation on it to let people know. :) Give yourself time to explore. How old are you? With time, it can get easier and the stages of life help you mature, you'll know the way from there.
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The choice is up to you whether you tell her or not, if you feel like she should know then tell her. If you know you want a partner of the same sex some time soon or already have one, then you will probably find that you need to tell her about it sooner rather than later.
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^^^ Muchly agreed. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" unless it applies to the person and a current situation which involves them, then you should tell them.
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As a guideline, no. Your sexuality is your own business. Telling someone, espescially a parent, is statistically unwise. However, if you have no reason to think she's freak out and disown you, or drag you to church for an exorcism or something, I guess it's up to you. I would still advise against it.
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Thank you all very much, I know this probly isnt a big deal to most of you, but its huge to me. I truly thank you with all my heart.
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