but sometimes, i wonder if they care about me.
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I get the same feeling :). Sometimes I wonder if my friends appreciate the things you do for them. You just have to believe they do.
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But i don't know if i can do that, they always do kinda mean stuff to me
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if they don't care for you... they aren't your friends. i have had friends that care for me and one that don't. i still have the friends that care. find friends that will care for you
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yeah... friends that are more mean than nice are not friends... they are users... what kind of mean stuff do they do?
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they will mean fun of me, tease me about something small so i try to ignore it but they will keep talking about it. It makes me kinda mad, sometimes they will be mean to me, but sometimes we will be bffs. its stupid.
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I would first try and explain how their being mean makes you feel. If they still go into 'mean mode' I would walk off, go home, an ignor them for a while. Take a new hobby, join a new group. Volunteer work is a great way to expand your social setting.
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actualy they seem like the type that would make fun of you more for "whining" about it... or make excuses like "we were just kidding around" "can't you take a joke?" and other such things... if their good enough people for you to feel comfortable talking to about how they make you feel.. then talk to them... if not i'd go with brothersranc's idea and leave em... (actualy i'd suggest doing that regardless) it sounds like a bad situation that looks good out of lack of better opportunities... well opportunity is out there waiting for you... but you'll have to go out and find it though which is a pain... but worth it...