I just moved here from a town where i had lived most of my life, with the conpanionship of the single greatest friend anyone could ask for, and about 2 years ago when we started being able to hang out less and less, i went to a great new school and made tons of new friends whom i care for deeply. Now, it seems that RIGHT AFTER i make so many wonderful new friends, im torn away from them, and my other friend. Now i live 3 hours away from them (trust me, its a lot farther away when you cant just drive down and seen them whenever you want). Im going to a school where the only person i know is my dad’s best friend’s daughter, who seems to like me as a friend, and likes it when i hang out with her, although im a bit nervous to, because (dun dun dun duuuun) i kind of “like” her. Other than that, one group of friends i thought i made friends with doesnt really want me, except for one person, and a couple other cliques i befriended dont really like me at all anymore. Im confused by all this, as most of these kids change daily their opinons of me, so i usually end up (shudder) sitting in the library reading a book. sorry this post was so long.
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I've spent many a lunch period in the library. It's a school thing, and it will sort itself out. If not, well, that's life.
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I'm a loner, I guess I can't help your torn emotions... lol. On another note... you've succeeded in either 1. lying to yourself or 2. having a double image Best advice I can give: don't start fights. :O
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what do you mean, lying to myself or having a double image?
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You think that people change their opinion of you on a daily basis, unless they're smoking pot(or they have mental issues, high school I guess.), that doesn't happen.
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You can do one action or say one thing that will change someone's opinion of you though.
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remain who you are... do not change that... just to fit in... youre in a new school... give it some time.. you will make new friends.. those of them that have different opinions on an hourly period... are people who are fake.. trying to fit in themselves... not realizing that they keep changing themselves... give it time... you will find true friends...
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well, its just like, one day they really want to hang out with me, and the next day, they really dont want anything to do with me. and yes, some of them are druggies. strange thing is, one of the better friends i have is a druggie, and he likes me just fine.
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Sounds like an emotional train... -_-; I try to avoid those people...
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You have the power to make any friends you want, its all about changing your image... Even though most people tell you to "be yourself" although you may not want to be "yourself" because you may not want to be "yourself" because you think "yourself" won't be friends with the people you want to... (thats the last of my philosophy for today...)
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Err... the only thing I can add at this point is that these things have a tendency to sort themselves out.
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hii...... dnt change who u are for ne one but the gurl seems to lyk to hang out wit u and thats all u need to keep u company if u lyk her!!! sorrii i dnt reallii know wat to say!!:(
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I think maybe you should try getting involved in something you enjoy at school. I know most of my friends came from the clubs i was in in high school, but if you dont find one that your kind of thing, i can only say to wait it out... sorry.