. Posted on here a couple of weeks ago and got such a warm response from people so thank-you for that. So.. I find myself in that same horrible situation again.. I hate myself for who I am and what i’ve done and whenever i get into a position that i cant control, i freak out and feel like i have no one to talk to.. I hate it.. feeling really down at the moment and not sure what to do, life can be so hard at times and i know its easy to say to someone “it’s ok, your get through this”, but it feels like when is it gonna get better and will it get any better?? sorry, I just need to moan… and my friends are to occupied with other things that they dont care..
Now i feel like an attention seeker.. Will i ever be happy??
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Wow! Sounds like we were in the same boat at one time. I learned the hard way that you cannot be happy with ANYTHING until you are completely happy with yourself first. There comes a time when you need to look at your life and ask yourself "Is it really that bad?" "Are there people out there that have it worse?". Life is what you make it sweetheart. Keep your head up.
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i don't know you can take a jog, lift wieghts, scream into a plilow anyother way to exsert stress or moping things
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I am sure that at one point during your life things were worse. If you can just for a moment remember those times and remember how you got through them then you'll be ok. I too am in a tight spot. This year has been nothing but work and stress and it doesn't look like it will stop. But! I know in then end everything will be just fine..
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Find what makes you happy and motivates you. Maybe you are bored. If you are constantly occupied you will have less time to think about your life in such a negative way. Music is one of the most important reasons I am so happy. It motivates me and gives me ideas.
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you will get though this all the people that belive in God are all praying for you you will get though this I promise
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I feel like thst some too, I am alone a lot and it gets to me. The thing I find most helpful is if I start doing things for someone else. Random acts of kindness...or start a project for someone else...heck any project will do, dump out the closet out on to the floor and reorganize it...amazing, right away you feel better.
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thanks everyone.. even though i feel so alone, hopefully i will get through this xx
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Hey I know exactly how you feel. when people give you advice it sounds so simple...like in one moment you could just snap your fingers...and poof...it'll all be okay again. sometimes you feel like you're doing this to yourself purposely, b/c it sounds so easy to get over...but the truth is it's the hardest thing you've ever faced in your life. what I'm doing right now is I'm working on is accepting that I am not supposed to be perfect....and that it is okay to feel this way sometimes. also im working on focusing on what I want...not what I don't want. You will get through this though...trust me, this is only a short chapter in our lives, and you are definitely NOT ALONE, Im here for you estoy aqui para tu
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i know just how you feel im having loads of problems at the momont but i have no one to share them with sometimes i feel as though i just want to go to sleep and never wake up its just one problem following another. iam not sure i would know happiness if it came my way.