We’ve been dating now for 2 months. His hand gestures and people gossip is getting to me. Is he gay?
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well what kind of stuff does he do
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this is tricky.. i have a friend who is like that too. however, he claims to be straight and is always telling me of girls he thinks are hot. i guess try to start up a sort of conversation that involves something about gay people, to see his reaction. its not asking him straight forward, but its just to see how he acts to the conversation even if it doesnt apply to him.
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If he were gay you would know, trust me.
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I'm gay personally, why don't you through some of this stuff at me? Not every gay man talks with a lisp. I'm a bit of a more apperance-frilly-loving type, but not all of us act that way. He might just be going through a time of confusion, just talk with him, that's your best bet.
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Have you ever heard of Judith Butler? I suggest you look her up, and read about some gender roles. Decide, why can't men act like that, and not be gay. My boyfriend is the ONLY boy in his family, and i'm not just talking about nuclear, his extended family, just his dad, uncle and grandfathers, no one else. He loves to shop and dance. But he is FAR from gay, trust me, i've been dating him for almost three years. If he is gay then obviously the relationship won't work. He needs to figure it out on his own time, and if its something that bothers you that much, then you shouldnt be in that relationship. If you enjoy being with him, and the relationship is a good one, stick with it. Goodluck!
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Gay guys get lots of chicks, look at metrosexuals... I know way more straight guys who 'act gay' then gay men. It's strange and confusing. But if he's with you---then why worry...