i am havin a long distance relationship. my bf lives in ny and i am in fl. recently he came to see me for my bday and we had plans to have sex unfortunatly we didnt do nuthing cause he couldnt put it in. not even a lil bit. i am very petite and my have a really big pen** can it possibly b cause i am still a virgin dats y he couldn’t get in. i was just wondering are we ever gonna be able to have sex? i mean is dere somehin i can do while he away to get me ready fo when we c each other again? please help
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Lubrication and a lot of foreplay (make sure your really turned on) and you should be good to go. The key is to relax while he's putting it in. I know your a virgin and this may be hard. But it might hurt less if you relax, because if not you close yourself off very literally. Good luck
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i mean masturbation could probably help, but yeah what Astrid said but be careful once you have sex once u want it more it gets addictive
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Yeah lots of foreplay and you can use lube too. i'm very small too. i've been having sex for 4years now. and it still takes a little longer than most people to get it in. but without soundin gross an goin into too much detail, its best if he puts it in a tiny bit then out again...so like thrusting an puttin it in a little bit more each time, that usually helps. but defo relax! and dont give up, because it may take a few attempts. just talk about it with your fella and talk about what your doing all the time with him. because communication and a relaxed atmosphere will also help.