what should i do? i broke up with him…and there this other guy i like Phillip…he like me to… and if u dont get this post read the other one “what do i do if i have a boyfriend and cheated on him with his bestfriend” something like that…help please…
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tell them both and use condoms next time
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You still don't know if it is his child, or the bestfriend you slept with. DNA test anyone? JERRY JERRY!
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Also an abortion is an option. Now wait for it... come fiends, come say how horrible an abortion is, and how it shouldn't be done based your specific moral system. COME!
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i agree with you sorry for the disapointment
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abortion...hmmm...ooo good idea...know they both dont have to know...
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how old are you?
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17
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danny is 23 and phillip is 22
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i think you should tell them your pregnant first before an abortion thats wrong their entitled to rights too
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wait dont abortions cost alot of money?
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400-500 if i remember correctly
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ok...i still dont have that kinda of money till my check comes in...so i have to wait a fewdays ...
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look it up in the phone book and call and ask
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but the thought if killin a baby...sounds sad...
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if you see it that way sure, not me
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should i really tell danny and phillip first...?
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shoot i gunna tell danny nothin...maybe phillip...
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yeah i hope u told danny u cheated on him to begin with
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give the baby to a loving family.. dont be a killer.. that will haunt you the rest of your life.. then you have someone to answer too ..God and the unborn... dont be selfish thats how you got pregnant in the first place... dont kill it will haunt you 4 ever
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yeah don't listen to that person i'm certainly not haunted i'm fine
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ok crazy person take your crap elsewhere this is not helping
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Godiskin ur right...
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i should keep it...and tell phillip its his...
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do whatever you think is best and get a paternity test
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yeah ok...im still gunna tell phillip its his...
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alright i'm out of this post that's just wrong and horrible bye
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your baby might do great things if you give it a chance.. you created something... Patty I will pray for you... do the right thing and you will be blesssed.. do the wrong and we all know about REGRET.. Tell him if he really loves you then it works out.. if not then someone better is ment for your live.. killing is WRoNG??? or dani you mean killig is right
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ok thanks Godiskin..
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No you have your beliefs i have mine i am pro-choice and i don't see it as killing
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not killing then its not alive?
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alive......... dead.......... hmmmmmmmm..... n
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you're not going to persuade me now if you don't drop it i'm reporting you for calling me a killer which is highly offensive
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I love you Patty.. you have a good mind.. mistakes happen all you life.. how you handle them makes you the person you are... you will be blessed for the right choices RIGHT>>
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blessed for having sex without getting married and cheating on the boyfriend then getting pregnant? yeah that's the right choice
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i'm calling jerry springer, and that's that
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You know - when I was 19 I was in a similar predicament... well not really the issue was whether my girlfriend and I should keep the child we accidentally created or not. We thought about all of the possibilities... particularly things like what if this is the person that cures Cancer someday, etc... but ultimately we were too young and had too much to do before becoming parents. I now have a 4 yr old daughter (20 years later) and she has a 6 yr old daughter - and I daresay we are prepared to be good parents now. She has her PhD, she loves her husband. I have 3 degrees, love my wife, our careers are blossoming. Whether you should tell someone you cheated on him or not I can't say - if you love him and he truly loves you then tell him. If your relationship is co-dependent then you have some hard choices to make.
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Okay, you are messed up. You are going to randomly tell someone that they are the father of the child? WTF? How is this worse than an abortion? You are basically playing Russian roulette with a man's life.
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i think she should tell both since she thinks it either one or the other and not sure, but no point she won't listen too immature i guess, can she even handle a child? now im scared for the kid
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This turn of event is actually pitiful.
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I even predicted this would happen.....
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do you want an award or something, you keep going on about it?
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I mentioned it once.
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well they both need to know, and honestly you shouldn't have cheated with the bestfriend in the first place, your actions are your responibilitys. no sympathy here. and btw my partner is saying you're stupid you shouldn't have cheated on your boyfriend with someone he doesn't know.
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i ment shouldn't have cheated on your boyfriend with someone he knows, do it with someone he doesn't know.
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i agree with your partner tomboi, he sounds like an inteligent guy if you are gunna cheat on your boyfriend, dont do it in your own neighbourhood (leave that to the soapies on T.V) next time choose a guy and make it clear so you dont make mistakes like this good luck with your thinking in the future
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i say don't cheat at all but i guess in alaska there's probably not many options