and theres this guy in my chm. class who seems interesting
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stop arguing
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how?
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well i dont think that you should just ditch your boyfriend because of argueing, sepecially if you say that you love him. Argueing helps to strenghten relationships, because it builds better communication and better bonds when tis resolved. I f acuple doesnt argue even just a little then itll never go anyplace.
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let her do what she wants.. this one of those post i don't like to talk about. I'm leaving this post..
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that makes sence ...im looking for a guy that sweps me off my feet.i dont get that from my boyfriend
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just sit him down and talk to him about it ask him whats been up his *** lately or maybe u should ask urself
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well, i've had a lot of friends dump their boyfriends cause f this and they regretted it SO much, so thats an immediate no... but i would talk to him immediatly and tell him the whole truth. first, that will show him that you trust him with your opinions and feelings, and that should resolve things.
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are relationship is really dull right now thugh i mean its gottn to the point wer we have nothing to talk about and we sit on the pone not saying anything for 20 min. not saying a word......
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im sorry but your not going to find a guy wholl "sweep u off ur feet" and who will really love you. You need to work to get to that point.
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mabe not exactly sweep me off but at least keep me intrested u know?
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tell him all of this and be totally honest. i went through this a couple times... i hated the oh so hated: 'soooooooo, what do you wanna talk about?' question over the phone... but i don't know, listen to what he says and ask him questions about random things and show him that you listen and have interst in him.
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the only thing he talks about is work and that its going to be better when were married! i want him to talk about use how we are now ...how he feals and stuff not what he wants to do in 4 years.
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yeah. well wait, how old are you guys? marriage is a huge commitment, and if i were you, i wouldn't exactly be deciding on marriage if you dont know what to say on the phone now...no offense. but i would definatly bring this all to the table asap
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no i know that im 15 hes 17. we arnt planning on marring till like 25 but thats all he talks about . how its going to get better later and how he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. and yet we cnt even hold a phone conversation going. he says wer just in a whole and that it will pass. :(
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hello?
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yeah um ask him how it will pass by you two not doing anything about it now.
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thanks guys im going to call him and "talk"
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Help me, I cant seem to talk to my boyfriend at all! he works all week and im at uni all week, we rarely see each other. when i call he rarely answers, never really replies to my text messages. i ring him before bed he says he wants to go to sleep. ???