I just started uni this year and back home i’d never had a boyfriend or even thought anyone fancied me! Almost since i’ve been here i’ve fancied this guy but haven’t got a clue whether he likes me back, as i don’t know whether i’m reading into things too deeply when there’s nothing there. He’s become a really good friend and i seem him all the time as he lives in the same flat as my best friends. However, last night at a party i got with another guy who really likes me and seems to have been asking everyone about and even remembers what i was wearing when he first saw me! He’s really sweet and a nice guy but i don’t fancy him at all. So i don’t know what to do, as should i go out with this guy or should i wait and see whether the guy i do fancy actually likes me back!?!?!?!
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Try to talk to the guy that you know likes you and tell him that you do like him but there is another boy you like and if you know that the other guy doesn't like you say that you would like a relationship with this person
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if u dont fancy the guy, u r very likely not to fancy him later... I wouldnt go for it, as i learn from my experience (we had good time though, but it feels like sth is missing...). but the choice is urs: sometimes a bird in the hand is worth two in a bush
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If you don't fancy this guy who likes you then it would be unfair on him if you went out with him. just tell him you would like to be friends but nothing more. With the guy you like just keep on flirting with him i'm sure he'll get the message soon!
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thanks for the advice. have told the guy who likes me that i just want to be friends, so will just have to wait n see if anything ever happens with the guy i like!
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If you don't like him, you could give him a chance, but if it doesn't work then just kindly let him go. The guy you really like may be a good person to date.