V.v.O/T - Ebay Meanie!!

NO.1. Ask :
V.v.O/T - Ebay Meanie!!
(I know this is very much off topic, but I like this forum best and I think you gorgeous girls give good advice!!)
I sold a top on EBay and the item ended on Friday 1st July – I got paid the next day (Saturday) and dispatched the top on the following Saturday, second class recorded delivery. I emailed my buyer to let them know and also to say that I hoped they were happy with the top, but if there were any problems to let me know BEFORE leaving neg feedback and I would do my utmost to solve any issues.
Anyway, on the 16Jul the buyer left me neutral feedback saying "nice item but took over 5 weeks to arrive". Which is a complete lie. From auction end, to them leaving me feedback is 15 days – not 5 weeks.
I know it’s only neutral and not negative, but I am really annoyed about it and don’t know what to do. My initial thoughts were to email them and ask why they lied? If they had mailed me and said, look it’s taken too long to get here; I probably would have refunded the PP. (Anything for a quiet life!)
I know I can reply to his feedback and point out the inaccuracy and I was initally thinking of leaving neg feedback - but that's probably me being a bit childish and cross. I'd like to do something or perhaps I should just leave it and chalk it up to experience?
What would you do? Do you think I am making too much fuss?
Sorry for the ramble if you are still with me, thanks very much!!
KC x
Answer:
I'd reply to their feedback on your feeback profile saying something like item took 15 days from winning to receiveing. Have recorded delivery slip to prove?
If you are happy with how quickly they paid then leave them positive. Or leave them neutral saying paid quickly but didn't contact me about delivery problem?
Either that or email them and ask? They can't change their feedback now so you have nothing to lose :)
Answer:
Sorry you got neutral feedback, if I were you I'd just reply to it saying it was only two weeks and if you'd have contacted me we could have come to an agreement.
I know it wasn't 5 weeks but 15 days is still a pretty long time to wait for something if you've paid quickly IMO.
Answer:
I'd e-mail them and ask why they wrote that, then if they refuse to remove it (it's possible to remove feedback if it's a mutual thing) I'd contact ebay, leave a reply to the feedback and leave negative feedback - that's a really unfair thing to do!
Answer:
I don't think the buyer deserves a negative feedback, she paid quickly and although she lied on her f/back she didn't leave a negative. Try contacting her, maybe she will agree to withdraw it.
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    Answer:
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